Missing the grandsons

None of the family see Evan and Declan anymore as Nicole decided to cut us off. According to her, the boys have no grandma. This was thanks to her ex, who refused to listen to me and not mention me in any conversation he might have with Nicole. 

Evan is not the biological son of the douche canoe Nicole has taken up with. Declan is his son and the boys are treated differently. I wish I could take both boys, however, that won't be possible. I thought about getting a lawyer and seeing what rights I have to get Evan. There have been several people who have noticed that Evan is treated worse than Declan. Declan gets away with murder while Evan is punished. The excuse is that we treated Evan differently than Declan. It's hard to treat the grandsons equally when one was raised with us for a while and the other one we never had access to as we were prevented from that. 

So, Charell and Montell have their ideas on how to keep their story straight and I have mine. I decided that I was going to keep separate journals for the boys when they were old enough to receive them to read.

So many memories could have been made, and the boys are missing out. The cousins miss them, and their feelings toward their aunt are fading. They are at the age where they know their aunt doesn't care about them even if Nicole says she does. Actions do speak louder.

Ryanne is friends with Nicole on Facebook, so we are not totally in the dark about what it happening with Evan and Declan.